Thursday, November 15, 2012


Okay, the term is likely being overused right now.  However, it is a powerful metaphor that makes us stop to think about how its impact will affect on our own financial situations.  The first and bigger impact will be on Americans but it will also have an impact on Canadians and a ripple effect worldwide. 
 

We are heading into the season of financial stress where quite often we turn a blind eye on our spending repercussions.  It's a joyous time of year.  Why spoil it with being fiscally responsible?  Who wants to be around a Scrooge at Christmas?   Oh, but no doubt all these excuses will seem pretty feeble when your spending regrets suddenly come alive with the arrival of the bills in January.


Avoid the Cliff. Set a Budget.

Do yourself and your family a favour, plan your spending for the holidays and stick to your budget.  Why put a damper on the holiday memories stressing about how to pay the bills?  It does not take long to make a simple budget for gifts, food and travel.  The challenge will be to stick with it.  When you are tempted to break the budget just visualize the cliff and remind yourself it is worth it in the end.  Avoid the buying pressure. Hard to do, but you'll feel a great sense of satisfaction by not giving in.  If you are using your credit cards monitor your spending closely.  Check your transactions online regularly to make sure you did not miss capturing what you spent.  (This also doubles as a check for fraudulent charges.)

Give Thoughtful Gifts

Quality over quantity does not need to come with a big price tag.  No matter the size of the budget when you give gifts with meaning to someone they are more deeply appreciated.  Think personalized gifts or gifts related to hobbies or their favourite sports.  For younger children consider a few smaller gifts with one more significant gift.  If it is something they really have wished for then everything else is a little diminished in comparison anyway.  It also teaches them about the value of a gift, not the quantity of gifts. 


Create New Traditions

If you have a large extended family gift giving can feel like it is out of control.  Start a Secret Santa tradition to drastically reduce your spending.  It will also reduce your time spent shopping and the stress of having to buy for so many people.  Be the one to bring it up in family discussions.  There are likely others who are thinking the same thing but are too financially embarrassed to bring it up.  There are many variations to how gift exchanges can work so have fun with it and make it unique to your family.  I'll bet there will be many great memories that go along with the new traditions established. 


Acts of Kindness

Instead of giving a gift why not do an act of kindness for that person.  Make up coupons to babysit on a date night, to shovel the snow, wash the car, help with a home or yard project that keeps getting put off or do laundry for a week.  The list is endless.  The recipient is sure to remember these acts and will appreciate the break or help.  This is a wonderful tradition to start with your children to teach them the value of helping others. It will instill a sense of pride in knowing it was their actions not a monetary item that brought the person joy. 


Make it a Game

As adults we need to set the example for our children in spending responsibly during the holiday season.  Help them set out a budget with their allowance.   Make it a game.  Get the best present they can think of at the best price within their budget.  Head out to local bazaars in the search of a thoughtful gift for their brother or sister.  I bet they walk out of there with their heads held high proud of their financial prowess.  


Less Stress, More Gratitude

You deserve to enjoy the Holidays so steer clear of that cliff.  Don't let the financial pressures of the season get the best of you.  Plan now to spend wisely so you can relax and truly enjoy time with friends and family with no regrets in January.
 

 

 

 

What are your thoughts?  How do you keep spending under control?  What are your budget friendly traditions?  

 


 


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